The Writer

Welcome! 

I created The Reporter and The Girl blog to journey among life’s most uncertain and abysmal path when forming love-lust-hate relationships.

I’m in my mid–twenties and have moved back to New York City after 6 years of term papers, tailgate parties, and three day weekends, on all 4 corners of the United States and abroad. Now that I am semi-permanently stationed in the Empire State and in my white-collar/blue jeans career; I thought that I could venture out and make a romantic connection.

Breaking News!!!

I met someone that I was instantly and deeply attracted to; not just his body, but I thought he was very smart, unique, and had great passion for things he did.  He is also ardent and well versed in his interests, WHO WOULDN’T LOVE A GUY LIKE THAT? He works as a reporter in the city, and though has suburban roots; the reporter seems to enjoy the eclectic, diverse, and fast paced lifestyle as a New Yorker.

There are no heroes, villains, or love triangles in this story.  He wasn’t a mild-mannered Clark Kent, and definitely did not have the strength of a hundred men, but he still managed to lift and carry me away to another planet.  This is where we box-stepped (because he couldn’t tango) around each other while keeping our eyes on a coveted prize.

He stole my heart, and now my experience has taught me a lot about what it means to trip head-over-heels. This is a piece of my life that is published in real time and laid out in chapters as our relationship grew and progressed. I’d love to hear some of your experiences and comments and hope that you enjoy reading my own.

**Names in the story has been changed to protect the privacy of the individuals and any similarities to actual persons, either living or dead, are merely coincidental.**

Thanks for reading!

TheGirl

You can contact me at reporterandthegirl@gmail.com

1,099 thoughts on “The Writer”

    1. TheGirl Post author

      Well, he doesn’t know. Actually he has an idea about it, but he doesn’t know the full extent (FB page, twitter, close to 30,000 hits) and as long as I change his name, he may not find out! Thanks for stopping by!

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi Eleanor,

      There’s always room for more! Glad you’re sticking around, I always enjoy the company. Hope to hear from you again soon!

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi Being Mum,

      Well, I like your concept on chivalry, as well as it placed some agency on women..alot has changed since the 60′s as chivalry is going the way of courtship….Oy!!!

      Thanks for stopping by and I hope we see each other soon!

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  8. wallfkinflower

    Hi TheGirl, thank you so much for discovering my blog and becoming the very first one to like it! Hope all goes great with the reporter and your social-media- covered love story!

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  15. IKB

    Thank you so much for stopping by our blog and liking our post, “Smallest One-Man Helicopter.” This is one of the most interesting ways we’ve seen to write about one’s life. We wish you much success in your love life:) and in your endeavors. – IKB

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  18. Nick Emery

    Thanks for your visit & like of my last post, I’m honored. Love when someone new checks it out – it let’s me check out someone else’s blog too. Great stuff – thanks for sharing and great stuff on here.

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  21. spirited13

    Thanks for stopping by! I have lots of teachings to share and I love to help others, as do you! Love your page as well….Thanks again and have an awesome week! Angel Hugs, Barbara

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi Barbara, Thanks for stopping by, I am definitely here to learn and I’m glad you shared your thoughts with me. Have a great week as well.

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi LaughingMom,

      Well I always make time to explore new blogs and writers. Thank you for coming by and visiting me in my corner of the world wide web! Glad to have you on board, enjoy!

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi Lady Yoga,

      No prob, thanks for visiting me too, I dunno if its “Love Story” in the traditional sense…its just a real story. I hope you enjoy let me know what you think when you’re all caught up!

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  41. sirrahh

    Thanks for stopping by my blog and liking one of the posts. This is a fascinating blog you have going on here. All the best to you.

    Rob
    Bluebattinghelmet.wordpress.com

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi Christopher,

      I had an artist who did the first two chapters artwork for me, but unfortunately he could no longer stay with us. If you want his info you can email me. Otherwise, thanks for stopping by!

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  46. augusta

    Thanks for liking our Daily OOMPH! That is how I discovered your blog and subscribed. A couple of years ago, my 28 year old son broke up with a wonderful girl who is living in NYC. You tell the story in a way that makes me feel that you are already my friend. Keep talking to us! … Aggie

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  47. J'Adore Travel

    Hi!! Thank you for liking my post – hope you will enjoy a few more of my stories! Havent posted any lately as w are being hammered with storms here in Eastern Australia!
    Have enjoyed reading your blog, looking forward to reading more
    All the best and stay warm!
    J’Adore To Travel x

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi J’Adore To Travel,

      Its sad to hear that Australia Day was hammered with poor weather. I enjoyed your posts and thank you for visiting me!

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