The Writer

Welcome! 

I created The Reporter and The Girl blog to journey among life’s most uncertain and abysmal path when forming love-lust-hate relationships.

I’m in my mid–twenties and have moved back to New York City after 6 years of term papers, tailgate parties, and three day weekends, on all 4 corners of the United States and abroad. Now that I am semi-permanently stationed in the Empire State and in my white-collar/blue jeans career; I thought that I could venture out and make a romantic connection.

Breaking News!!!

I met someone that I was instantly and deeply attracted to; not just his body, but I thought he was very smart, unique, and had great passion for things he did.  He is also ardent and well versed in his interests, WHO WOULDN’T LOVE A GUY LIKE THAT? He works as a reporter in the city, and though has suburban roots; the reporter seems to enjoy the eclectic, diverse, and fast paced lifestyle as a New Yorker.

There are no heroes, villains, or love triangles in this story.  He wasn’t a mild-mannered Clark Kent, and definitely did not have the strength of a hundred men, but he still managed to lift and carry me away to another planet.  This is where we box-stepped (because he couldn’t tango) around each other while keeping our eyes on a coveted prize.

He stole my heart, and now my experience has taught me a lot about what it means to trip head-over-heels. This is a piece of my life that is published in real time and laid out in chapters as our relationship grew and progressed. I’d love to hear some of your experiences and comments and hope that you enjoy reading my own.

**Names in the story has been changed to protect the privacy of the individuals and any similarities to actual persons, either living or dead, are merely coincidental.**

Thanks for reading!

TheGirl

You can contact me at reporterandthegirl@gmail.com

1,101 thoughts on “The Writer”

  1. cme5125

    Thanks for checking out my blog and my recent Funfetti Chex Mix! You have such an interesting blog, I look forward to following your adventures as well.

    -Christine

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      1. TheGirl Post author

        Hi Deborah, thanks for the compliments, I’m not sure what you mean by “heady” though. I appreciate the updates on your trip!

  3. alslaff

    Just stopping by to thank you for your recent like on Shift Key. As I read around your site, an axiom comes to mind. (Well, an axiom I made up, lived, stated often, mentioned to friends, because it has been true for me in relationship; and others I’m sure.) “You can’t be in relationship any higher than your level of healing (and/or your level of dysfunction).” Again, thank you; enjoying your site.

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Oy, a brutal truth!!! Thank You Alslaff for sharing! But you have admit, you can’t have “fun” without dysfunction, lol. All seriousness, you’re right. I guess each person will have to look within themselves to identify issues. The problem is alot of people don’t realize there’s dysfunction or have the skills to solve it.

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  4. Moira

    Thank you for visiting my blog (eatbelive) and for liking my recent posting (skillet apple pancake). I’ve only just begun scrolling through your blog, but I love it already. I particularly love your seemingly boundless optimism. It might be a factor of age, luck in love and/or a better childhood than mine. Keep up the good work and adventurous spirit!

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi Moira,

      Thanks for responding and visiting me here! I loved your recipe and will have to try it. I don’t know if I am optimistic or lucky, but at the time when I was writing my intro, that’s how I felt about Jon. So I guess as you read on through you’ll see the ups and downs of that…I just take it day by day. Enjoy your Sunday!

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  5. mikerana

    I live your writing style. mine is formal; for the non-fiction writing. Publishers want it that way. In my novel, I am using your kind of style .. Thank you

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi Mikerana,

      Thanks for your compliments, I really appreciate it coming from an accomplished writer, as this is my first time doing anything like this. I hope you enjoy your Sunday and I’d like to hear from you again!

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  9. trendbytes

    Thanks for stopping by my blog. I’m jealous you’re in NYC…spent 15 great years there but am now down South and loving it. Keep up the writing…it heals and humbles.

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi TrendBytes,

      Well I’ve been wanting to come back for a long time and I’m at the point where I could leave without turning back. I guess a girl like me will never settle down.

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  11. eriklehman

    I’ve been perusing your work, your stories, in particular. I love it: the clear creativity; the realism of characters; the challenging of rules. Rock on, girl. I’ll see ya on the funny pages.

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi Eriklehman,

      Thanks for stopping by and making yourself at home here! I appreciate your comments as writing and blogging is new to me. At least I know I may end up on the funny pages instead of the funny house.

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  18. Claire

    Sweet work here sister… I really dig the concept! Glad you liked Vegemite Chicken. You should see what the boy man thing in your life thinks of it. Can you buy Vegemite in the US? My brother lived there for years, I should know. Anyhow… Good luck and keep going! :)

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi Claire,

      Thanks for stopping by and strange I think I remember seeing it once in Alaska, of all places. But I’m sure I can buy vegemite in the city. I’m glad you enjoyed my writings and I hope you stop by again!

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  19. preparetocrossover

    Not certain if I said thank you for visiting my blog. Thanks for liking my posts and spending time learning about our experiences. Your site is an amazing piece of work I look forward to exploring and learning more. Thanks again.
    PrepareTCO

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi,

      Yep its no problem, I guess we are both here to learn and share from each other! Thanks coming by again and I hope to see you again soon!

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi PhotoByCraig,

      Well, I don’t think if you asked me at first if I would say extraordinary, but it’s definitely life changing. I hope you come by again!!

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  26. gnileet

    Thank you for dropping by to my blog. I hope you liked the photo.
    And this trip allows me to discover an interesting piece of blog writer. I will jump onto a speed boat and catch up with the rest.

    -Felicia

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi Felicia,

      Yes I did your post, and I’m glad you came and visited me. Let me know how your trip around my Rabbithole world turns out!

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi Ohlidia,

      Thanks for coming by, I enjoyed your post and I’m glad you’ll make yourself at home here to read my story! I hope to hear from you soon!

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  31. malctg

    Hi TheGirl. May I wish you great success in your life and relationship. I tried and failed to find that special someone. two ex-wives later and many years ago I gave up and remain an independent man. Though I do have four children and at the last count thirteen grandchildren. May I thank you for liking my poem ‘The Policeman’. Best Wishes, The Foureyed Poet..

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi TheFourEyedPoet,

      Thanks for finding your way back to me. I wouldn’t have said you failed but rather you found happiness in the end, as a single person. And that’s ok, many of us are “Single by Design.” Remember we all choose the lives we lead, and being single and happy is better than paired off and miserable.

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  32. jser67

    I liked your post. I live a very mundane life- (BUT…you’d be suprised…just can’t write about it- too weird).in cape may, NJ- worked in NY in 1970- I’m old!

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Well,

      I consider myself to be mudane and boring too…..for the most part, lol. Its nice meeting you, I hope to hear from you again soon!

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  35. Silk Questo

    Thanks for the like on my post on our 5writers5novels5months blog! I grew up in the shadow of NYC, so reading your blog is like going home 45 years later.

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  37. emmephoenix

    Thanks for checking out my blog and the ‘likes’ on my posts! If you’re interested in my class on Introduction to eBooks Formatting and have any questions, please feel free to send me an email In them meantime, I’m having a look around here . . .

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  38. StillValerie

    Thanks for stopping by my blog and liking a post. It gave me a chance to check out your great blog. I’m catching the story part way, so I’ll have to come back when I have more time and read more.

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  40. Jeuron

    Hi! Thanks for taking out the time to like my recent post. I must say you have a very interesting and creative blog going on here. It stands out from the pack.

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  41. regressada

    Wow, your blog seems so…novel! Ha, I’m fascinated by your creativity…will be reading more!

    Thanks for checking out my blog.
    MJ
    welleatyouup.wordpress.com

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi Macaronicious,

      No prob, thanks for coming by as well! I hope you enjoy your stay here and let me know what you think after you’ve caught up!

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  46. amb

    Love the artwork on your blog! Thanks for liking a recent post of mine, I’m glad to have discovered your blog and am looking forward to reading more!

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    1. TheGirl Post author

      Hi Pearls and Paris,

      Nice name btw, thanks for stopping by and please connect back with me once you’re caught up, tomorrow is CH. 15 Truth and Reckoning

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